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Today's episode is brought to you by AOS Kitchens, the South's leading outdoor kitchen design and installation specialists.
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Hello and welcome to another episode of the Meet and Greet of Barbecue Podcast.
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Today we have something very special for you.
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We were lucky enough to get a bit of time with Matt Black, who has a phenomenal story about how he got into cooking and barbecue.
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But I'm gonna let Matt go through all of this.
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This is part one of our episodes with Matt, and this is his story.
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Without much further ado, here's Matt.
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Hello, Matt.
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Thank you so much for taking time to speak to us today.
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Um before we go any further, please do introduce yourself to everyone that's listening.
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Absolutely.
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Um, hello everybody.
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My name is Matt Burgess, aka Mat Blak.
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A lot of people have asked me where I've got Matt Black from, and yes, you're correct.
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I am a 52-year-old male.
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Still, there's kept his hip-hop name from when he was 16 years old.
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I don't know why I have done that, but it kind of is cool and it has followed me around everywhere.
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So that's where the name Mat Blak came from.
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Um, I was kickers in with a bit of a rap or no, no, I'm not.
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No, no, there's absolutely no way.
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Back in like 1988, that would have been really cool.
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Right now, in 2026, I would look absolutely stupid.
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But um, yeah, it was um I was in a situation where I um was in a beat box competition and I didn't have a hip hop name.
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And on the side of the stage, there was a uh painting of Matt Black emulsion, and that's where I said that's gonna be my hip hop name, and that was ever since I was 16.
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And I walked out on stage and I won.
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I was the Wellington beatbox champion in 1988, which is no, I'm not gonna do beatbox, but thanks for asking.
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Hey, at least you didn't go with the other option of emulsion, you know?
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Yeah, it was.
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I did consider it.
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No, I could never really spell it because I'm dyslexic, so yeah.
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Well, how how did you go from that point into your journey into cooking?
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Yeah, it was it was a crazy, I think I you know, it should probably start from the beginning.
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Um, and I I will try and get through this as quick as possible.
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You know, a normal childhood, um, you know, went to school as most other kids did, and um, you know, my my mother was um working at a um a large sort of car firm where it was called Cable Price Toyota, it was a Japanese car firm, and um she was secretary to the director there, the CEO.
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Um, so you know, think life was good, money was good, everything was coming through.
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And then when I reached probably around about 10 or 11 years old, um, I started getting those pangs of rebelliousness and stuff.
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So I thought um, you know, I I probably was showing off way too much in school and and in class and you know, doing stupid things.
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And I started sort of getting into fighting and you know, marijuana was very um prevalent in New Zealand at the time.
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Um, so you know, I kind of started getting into that around about 10 and 11.
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Um, and then my mum uh sadly got made redundant.
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Um, and that kind of like changed all of our lives.
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Um, I'm an only child, I've never met my father.
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He took off when I was young, I have no brothers or sisters, and um so when she was made redundant, um, she got quite a large payout.
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And um her dream and aspirations was always to she loves food and she's always loved food.
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She's she was a very proficient home cook, but um, she wanted to run some type of food operation.
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Her um parents, my grandparents, uh, were fantastic gardeners and real old school British home cooks.
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Um, they're from the UK.
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Um, they moved over in the early 1920s.
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Um, so my mum was sort of brought up and inspired by that.
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So she decided to buy a delicatessen, um, and she started like um you know, making all the things within a delicatessen, things like charcutries and salamis and salads and you know, all these incredible things to, you know, put on display.
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But sadly, just up the road, just after she opens, there was a large supermarket that opened, and that just killed her.
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And so over those two years of my teenage years, probably 13 to 14, I watched um her decline into um alcoholism.
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I watched her business decline into just the most horrific place where you know she um had to let it go and she was declared bankrupt.
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And, you know, the bailiffs came and emptied our house, and we came home and there was nothing.
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And, you know, we went from living a very comfortable life to absolutely having nothing.
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And uh at that time, um, obviously, that I got caught um at school um smoking marijuana, and um obviously it was put in front of me that I would either have to go to a drug rehabilitation um place um or um I would be expelled.
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So that was sort of the terms of the suspension that I was doing.
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Um just to remind you, I was 13 years old.
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So when I walked into this drug rehabilitation center, um there was Henry and Steve, who were both heroin addicts for 30 years, and this was sort of the level of people that I was having to um be involved with um for a month, and it just made me super uncomfortable.
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And I think that um, and it's one of the things that I try to do now is educate people about drugs because you know there are very different drugs out there and very different levels of drugs and what they do.
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But it anyway, you know, it was a no-compromise with the headmaster of the school that I was going to, and he said, You either do this or you leave.
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Um, and us trying to explain to him going, the heroin and marijuana are very different drugs.
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Um, and actually, you're probably putting a 13-year-old child in more danger to be around this.
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So, anyway, cut long story short, um, I was expelled from that school.
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Um, I got given a second chance to go to another school.
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Um and uh it was kind of like a correspondence school for young uh kids who were in similar situations to me.
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Some were there from victims of you know abuse, some were from you know other sort of um uh underprivileged backgrounds, and some kids were like me who had been expelled.
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So it was a really great environment, really beautiful environment.
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And I got the uh opportunity there um to be um like sort of class captain or school captain, and um I sort of you know took it was a very strange role for me to take because I'd never been in uh a situation of leadership.
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And I was only a kid, I was like 14 years old at the time, and to be given this opportunity was really weird.
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But um, and it was very much a self-sufficient school where um you do correspondence work, and every now and then the director would come down and they would check the the schoolwork that you're doing and making sure that you're doing.
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And one day he left the school to me and he said, Look, I trust you, you're gonna, you know, look after everyone in the school.
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And I did, and we had such a great day.
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We cleaned everything up, and and as an incentive and as a thank you from me, I decided to blow the whole school out with marijuana.
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And uh, so it was the second school I was expelled from.
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Then I went to a place called Potter College, where um it was a lot, it was really strict.
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It was one of the toughest schools in the country, and um I sort of finished my uh work there.
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So um within that environment, um, it was I think you call it Borstal over here in New Zealand, we call it Tapan, which is kind of like a boys' home, and it's not so much a prison, but it kind of is like you're you're under house arrest, you can't go out.
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Um, I won't get into sort of what I got into to get there, but you know, it was really going off the handles.
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I was like 15 years old, my mum's an alcoholic, I've been kicked out of school, I had no life, there was no chance.
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I I'd recently I was 14 years old, I got my girlfriend pregnant, you know.
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It was just I I was on the path to destruction, basically.
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Yeah, and so when I finished the school, um I decided that my only dream was to join a gang.
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And um, that was my sort of main goal.
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Now, for you to go on to we called it the dole.
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I think you used to call it that over here.
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Now you call it universal credit, I believe.
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Um, but back in New Zealand, for you to go on to that for somebody who was my age, you had to prove that you were um actively looking for work.
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And by doing this, they had schemes called access schemes.
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And so there was two access schemes that were available to me.
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One was catering, and the other one was horticulture.
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Now, obviously, I'm gonna choose horticulture because why?
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I want to learn how to grow marijuana and sell it.
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So I started this horticulture course, and I realized very quickly that it was hard fucking work, working really hard.
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So um I lasted there, I think it was about two days, to be honest, and I was quite impressed uh with myself that I lasted that long.
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Um, and then obviously, going back to my care worker or my social care worker, um, they were like, Well, you're gonna have to do the catering side for me, working in the kitchen.
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Um, and I know you can't really say this, but I'm gonna say this now.
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It's kind of like it back then, it wasn't a very um honorable job.
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It was considered to be quite girly, you know, it's like woman's supposed to be in the kitchen, and that shows how much time's have passed anyway.
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Um, so I wasn't really happy about going there, but I had to do this to get the doll.
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So when I went in there, um I started what was being shown things like how to trust a chicken, how to boil an egg, the different elements of eggs and what they do and how they perform differently and different dishes and stuff.
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And um, weirdly, I I knew most of this stuff that the tutor was was showing me, and he was saying sort of things like make an omelette, and you know, I knocked up an omelette and I look around me at the other 17 students, and they were just absolutely shit fucking shit everywhere.
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It was awful.
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Oh, are we allowed to swear on this?
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Yeah.
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I my apologise if you say what the fuck you want.
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Okay, cool.
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Thank you.
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I just I should have asked that.
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Um, and yeah, so I was like in this environment where the tutor was like, Hey, like, where did you learn to cook like this?
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Um, and I had read I didn't realize, but um, you know, at that point I sort of went back in my mind and was like, How did I do that?
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And it was my mum who showed me as a young child as I was growing up that that was her love language to me, was always like, Let me cook for you, let me show you.
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And she would used to do things like, Okay, you know, this is how I boil an egg, and and this is in there.
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And like I was like, I remember these things like when I was four, five, six years old, sitting on the kitchen floor and just watching my mum make these incredible dishes.
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And I was, I thought everybody knew this, and I thought, like arrogantly, that every single home was like my home that every single mum and parent and father could cook as well as my mum.
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And then I really quickly realized, especially in this room, that I was in with all these really bad, uncompetent chefs.
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Um, that yeah, I I actually had a skill, and it was my first time that I was like, oh wow, actually, I'm I'm finally good at something in my life rather than smoking weed um or you know, trying to grow marijuana, which um kept on dying on me anyway when I did try to grow it.
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Um, so the the the chef said to me, um, you know, like when you leave this course, I think that you should consider a job in catering.
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Um, so when I left the course, I went, fuck that, I'm never doing that again.
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It's fucking shit.
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Um, and got onto the doll, which I was so happy about.
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Um, so then I just proceeded to spend the next couple of years after that smoking marijuana um and not really doing too much.
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And uh a friend of mine that was working uh close to where my mum lives um said that there had been a job opening happened at this factory that made fresh pasta.
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So why don't you go down?
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It's a couple of days a week, you're just packing boxes, it's you know, for sending off to supermarkets.
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So I was like, okay, yeah, can make a bit of extra cash on the dole and stuff.
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And I went there and um it was my first real job of working with food.
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So it was a sort of a large factory that had these Italian ravioli machines and fresh pasta machines that would spit out these uh, you know, pasta shapes onto these pasteurizer machines.
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They would go through like this heated sort of steam treatment and then go onto these big cooling racks, and then they'll come to you and you'd weigh them out into these containers and they put them onto these sort of vacpack machines, vacpack them, then you'd pack them in boxes and they'll go and they'd go out.
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So I was doing that and I got into the work and I got into like the value of money and you know how uh things were really helping.
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And I was like, oh my god, I can actually can you know contribute to mum.
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And you know, by this time, mum was sort of coming out of her depression a little bit and thinking maybe I should get back into work, and you know, it was really hard on her, but you know, that was her dream, and I watched her dream just was destroyed in front of her.
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Um, and that was really, really hard.
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But you know, being able to provide for my mum and to to you know give her some money and so she could just like survive um was was really satisfying.
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And I felt like finally in my life that I was like kind of making a difference.
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Still, my dream was to join a gang.
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It was one of the New Zealand's biggest gangs, and my best friend at the time um was um, you know, gearing up to prospect for it.
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And you know, with doing that, we were doing a lot of illegal activities.
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He was a fighter, I was more sort of like a thief, and you know, I did burglaries and robberies and sort of things like this.
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And we we're trying to sort of get a bit of notoriety to get into the gang.
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And uh it came up to it came up to the time where we were supposed to go to the pad, basically, and you go through a prospect uh thing.
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Um and the prospect thing is you know, you'll get the hell beaten out of you, and then once if you can handle it and you can stand up afterwards, then you'll get given a patch or a t-shirt and say that you're in the gang.
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Um, luckily at that time, I had some really good friends around me, and you know, they sort of spoke to me during the day and said, like, nah, you shouldn't do this.
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Like you're better than this.
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Like, I think that you shouldn't do this, just let him go.
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And he came over and I gave him back like the t-shirt that we were supposed to wear, and I said, Look, I'm not gonna go with you.
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Um, and he went and he was hospitalized for three months.
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So I was very much I dodged a huge bullet that day.
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Um, and it was re it was really hard for me to watch.
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I had to go into um hospital and go visit my friend, and basically he came from a very bad background, so didn't have any parents or any family that really loved him.
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So it was just me and my mum that were like kind of caring for him.
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So it was that was a really sort of tough thing to see.
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Um, but you know, I had a job and and life was reasonably okay.
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You know, weed was still very uh predominant in my life and sort of things were ticking over.
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And then one day I had a phone call from a very good, an old school friend of mine, and he called me up on a Friday afternoon and said, Hey, uh my kitchen hand uh or kitchen porter over here um has cut his hand.
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I'm working at this restaurant.
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Can you come and help us out for one night?
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Um, I didn't really want to do it.
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I'm just like, look, I I'd never want to be a chef.
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I don't want to fucking come into your kitchen.
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I don't want to wear those stupid hats and stuff like this.
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And he goes, please just come, like just when I'll pay you a hundred dollars.
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So a bit of math in my head, I worked out I could buy half an ounce with that.
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So I was like, I'm on my bike, I'm struggling.
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Like you knew your priorities.
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I'm like, I'm there, I'm there.
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Don't worry.
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Don't worry.
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Um, and yeah, it was um it was a really defining moment in my life.
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I when I walked through that back door, um, you know, I can still remember the smell of the bins, I can still remember the smell of the kitchen, I can still remember the first two chefs that I saw.
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And I walked in, and it was it was kind of like, oh wow, fucking hell.
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Everyone here in this place is like me.
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They're all social outcasts and they're all fucking degenerates, exactly like me.
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And you know, you had all these fucking really like weird, fucking big, burly tattooed neck tattoos, face tattoos, ex-prisoners, all cooking the most beautiful food I'd ever seen in my life.
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And I was sitting there, I was like fuck just blown away.
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They caught me hook, line, and sinker, and I was just like, absolutely, this is me.
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This is fucking me.
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I absolutely love this.
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And then at you know, after service, um, I was terrible that night, by the way.
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Um, and I have no idea why at the end of the night um that they did offer me a job.
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Um, you know, generally, like you you've got to work at a pace when you're working in a restaurant like this because all the dishes and everything just get like all piled up and stuff, and you know, by the time service ended, like my section was just covered in shit and everywhere.
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And then the chefs had to finish cooking and come and help me because I was just too slow.
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But at the end, the chef called me out into the restaurant and gave me a shot of tequila and a beer and said, Um, you know, I've heard about your story, I've heard about like, you know, um your background.
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I'm gonna throw you a bit of a bone here.
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And why don't you come and work for me and I'll teach you how to cook?
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Um, so I was like, No, I I fucking hate kitchens.
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I home smoke weed.
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And he's like, Well, look, just go home, have a think about it.
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And I did.
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I thought about it really hard over the weekend.
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And um, again, I don't I didn't have very male, many male role models in my life at the time.
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But my uncle, um, who lived uh in another city in New Zealand, um, I called him and I asked him, and he's like, Well, you know, you can still do what you love.
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And my passion at the time was music, and he's like, You can still do your music, but it's good that if you learn a trade, you've got something to fall back on and later on in life.
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So just do it and see what you think.
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So I did.
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I did.
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I jumped into the kitchen and I started working and um, you know, learning the trade, and you know, there was just um crazy um antidotes and scenarios that I could like go on for forever, but I realized that that we haven't even reached my uh journey to London yet.
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So we'll brush over that a little bit.
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But um, you know, if I'm gonna fast forward it, I'll fast forward it, you know, till I was about 23, 24 years old.
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And um, I had moved out of mum's and I was cooking um in a restaurant in New Zealand.
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It was one of the hottest new openings in New Zealand, and you know, I was a very proficient chef.
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I'd been cooking for about eight years since then.
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And um, a friend of mine um was uh just finishing uni and he said, Look, I'm going to travel.
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And my my dream was always to go to England.
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Um, one because the drugs were really cheap and this incredible club scene.
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So that was my only reason wanting to come here was go clubbing and take drugs.
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That's it.
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That's all I wanted to do.
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So um he got a loan from a like quite a large loan for when you finished university in New Zealand.
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Your bank offered you, we're gonna give you a startup loan to start your own business.
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So obviously, with the irresponsible fucking idiots we were, we took this money and said, fuck, let's go traveling.
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And anyway, before we he's like, I'm gonna go do a ski season in Queenstown, and then he'll come back to Wellington, and then me and him are gonna fly to Australia and we're gonna do this.
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And I was like, I was so happy.
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And he goes, But I need you to save some money.
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I was fucking useless at saving money.
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I was easily addicted to marijuana, and that's all I wanted to do.
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But he had the money, you know.
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So I was like, Oh, I'm okay.
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Like, I could save up a couple of hundred bucks and we'll go there, we'll get a job, and then I'll be fine.
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Six months later, it came, turned up to my house, and he turns around to me um and says, So sorry, I spent all the money.
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I was like, fucking we want to go with weed, and I was like, Oh, you fuck man.
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So look, I've only got enough money for my ticket, but what I'm gonna do is I'm gonna go to Australia, I'm gonna get a job, and then um we're going to I will save up some money, I'll pay for your ticket, you come over, you come work with me where I'm working.
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It made a lot of sense in my head.
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I was like, okay, yep, that's cool.
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I was quite dejected because I was like, fuck, I just want to get out of New Zealand, I just want to do this.
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At that moment, and this is a real true story.
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At that moment, my girlfriend walked out and she had the cordless phone.
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So we didn't have mobiles then.
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She had the cordless phone and Mum's on the phone.
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Um, there's there's something wrong.
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And so I was like, fuck, what's going on?
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She's like, I need you to come home right now.
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Right now.
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Like, don't even fucking question it.
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Skin to a taxi, a car, whatever.
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Just I need you home.
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So obviously I had my best friend there, my girlfriend.
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We fucking jumped into his car straight away.
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Fucking mad drive all the way back to Miramar, where I where my mum lives.